Hello dear friends,
as an old proverb says,
the beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder, and so it is with a lot of things that is essential for our life. It might be good if I try to express my thoughts about the words „love“, and „longing“.
Please allow me to expound on that by referring to another great poets thoughts about love – and friendship. I am recalling a thought of
Bertold Brecht, who once stated he would like to argue against the common feeling that estimates love higher than friendship. He makes the point as such:
What happens to loving people, when the desire will be finished, if their love is not based on a true friendship, wherein everybody can rely on the partner.
So, if we talk about love, we should not simply think about erotic feelings, but of people who have more in common: Love based on friendship. And even the longing must not necessarily be an erotic one. (It has taken me a long time to come to understand that, but at my age I should slowly start to sort thing out.) You can imagine the longing to be with a person and to share the thoughts and moods with her or him, free of any physical desire. Yes, that’s the other word: desire and longing are different.
Well, after those thoughts you are as well welcome to comment on them, as to refer on any piece of Leonard Cohens poetry.
Maybe, my first suggestion, to examine
Suzanne here again (I shall read, of course, the other topics in this forum and the L.C.files/analysis, in the meantime), might make some sense.
And
Beautyful Losers does have quite some passages which deal with this topic, too.
So please

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Mad Musicologist